Comments on: Handling The Absence (Part 1)

By: When Silence Speaks

When Silence Speaks — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:13:50 +0000

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By: Marie

Marie — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 14:20:31 +0000

Hi Mitch! Wishing you and hubby all the best… communication is ever more important during these times. Have a read through my post… here : http://gorgeoustraveller.blogspot.com/2008/04/do-you-believe-in-long-distance.html

take care
Marie

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By: Mitch

Mitch — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:42:04 +0000

Hi Yen! Maybe in your case, it’s different. It’s bcoz you can afford to travel and see each other whenever possible. But to couples like us na kelangang gawin ang salitang “kelangan”, all we could do is do it with “sacrifice”.

My dad also worked abroad for 17 years, mahirap. I’ve seen it. Naging close kami kelan na lang but after a couple of years I had to leave and try my luck din abroad.

Korek ka dun! Kaya nga sabi ko dapat noon pa natin naisip maghanap ng much better work kaso lulong pa sa isa’t isa hehe! I think this decision usually happens talaga siguro kapag may kids ng involved. It’s bcoz we think of their future.

By: Mitch

Mitch — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:36:42 +0000

Thanks Luisa! Yup, you’re right…

By: Mitch

Mitch — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:35:59 +0000

Hi Nice! And my dad worked abroad for 17 years. I said to myself before, never akong papayag na maging ganun kami. But sometimes we have to… Isipin ko na lang din wala kaming choice para magaan sa loob.

By: Mitch

Mitch — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:32:36 +0000

Hi Feng! Haha! Maki-senti ba? :p Thanks!

By: Yen

Yen — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:20:19 +0000

Lam mo Mitch hindi pwede sa amin ang long distance relationship din. Aside from we are so addicted to each other. Walang mangyayari sa amin puro gastos lang kasi every month gusto namin magkita mag-asawa. We tried the nth times pero wala ding nangyayari. Tapos sa akin kasi, I grew up na hindi nakikita and Dad ko. He worked in another place din kaya hindi ko cya close. I wished meron choice c Mom nun. Kaya ngayon, I don’t want my kids na lumaki na hindi nila nakikita yung Daddy nila. Ok lang na paglaki nila wala yung Daddy kisa lumaki cla na wala clang nakikitang Daddy. Kasi I’ve been to that situation before. Pero sa akin lang to ha. Share ko lang:)

I am sure it will work out for you. I know that it’s for the better din.

O cya diary na yata comment ko..LOL

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By: luisa

luisa — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 10:42:06 +0000

if only couples can stay together most of the time, i would want that for every couple in this planet. things happen for a reason and i am sure distance will make your relationship stronger, the heart grow fonder and the love deeper.

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By: N!cE

N!cE — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 09:56:36 +0000

Lam mo Mitch, ganyan ang setup ng family namin nung bata pa ako. My dad worked abrad for 8 loooong years. Lungkot talaga and I saw my mom’s hardship in raising us up alone…pero it’s for the betterment of the family and at that time we have no other choice.

N!cE
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By: feng

feng — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 07:38:17 +0000

I can understand your predicament Mitch. hirap talaga pag long distance relationship. but as you say, it’s a test of your enduring love for one another. naks! tamang senti talaga daw noh! heehee. ewan ko ba. blame it on the bed weather!

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