One of the few topics that would make my eyebrow raise is Infidelity. That’s for sure…. Thoughts would definitely run around my mind once this topic is brought up in a group. With men around especially, I get really annoyed sometimes with their never dying lines “Lalaki lang ako”. So what if you’re a man? Does it allow you to do such act when you know you are committed to someone else already?
I also strongly believe that this usually problem arises when your partner is never satisfied with w-h-a-t-e-v-e-r! You tend to look for that s-o-m-e-t-h-i-n-g until it’s too late, you are hooked already! But don’t you think it’s a childish excuse? Escape goat? Why not sit down and discuss it with your partner? Communication plays a big role in every relationship. You have to listen and not just hear what your partner says. Then, maybe…. everything will fall into right places.
I don’t remember how many times I’ve been a victim of this cruel act. At first, I used to blame and even curse them…. Soon I realized my shortcomings. I know I’ve been a pain in their b*tts too! So no regrets! Instead, I thank them for making me stronger, wiser and sweeter heehee!