Raising Kids

I am a first time mom. I know it’s not an excuse. But where do I start? And how? My husband and I would always end up arguing for the same issue. How to raise a child? A 15 month old daughter. He is very lenient. I am not. He tolerates her. I do, but not every time.

Yesterday, we saw her eating the foam from our sofa. I punished her by letting her sit in one corner. She did. I didn’t have to say it twice, she understood, with her eyebrows wrinkled. I beat her palm (not so hard, after doing it, I always feel guilty but….), to let her know that what she has done is wrong. But when I do, my husband would always take her side, “she still doesn’t know what she’s doing”. And I would stick to my line “kids are smarter than us, they know exactly what they are doing”. And we’ll go on and on and on…. arguing….

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Blogger since 2007 | Home-based Marketing Assistant | WAHM | Ex-OFW | Music enthusiast | Cactus and Succulent Hobbyist | A 41 y/o mom of two lovely girls sharing her adventures as she walks through motherhood and having to do most things on her own while her Indian national husband works miles away from home.

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3 Comments

  1. hello mitchteryosa,
    nice to hear i am not alone thinking how to raise kids. i have 3 girls 9, almost 8 and 5. it’s not easy raising kids but good partnership with your husband helps a lot. consistency and team work do not give signs of confusions to the kids. and yeah, lots and lots of prayers, too.
    hails

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  2. but she’s 15 months old???

    anyway, study shows that the length of a child’s punishment should be equal to their age… so for a 1 year old, time out should only be 1 minute… and for a 5 year old, time out should be 5 minutes.

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  3. @ jo : siguro di lang mahaba masyado ang pasensya ko. after doing that, nagi-guilty naman ako. But I swear di malakas yung palo, konti na konti lang. Hehe! Defensive eh no? Siguro minsan dala ng pagod sa maghapong nasa trabaho tapos mainit pa.

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