In a world full of expectations, stereotypes, and societal pressures, the journey of a woman to discover her true self can be both challenging and liberating. The concept of unboxing serves as a powerful metaphor for this journey, as it involves unraveling layers of external influences and societal constraints to unveil the authentic self within – the empowering journey of unboxing, exploring how it relates to every woman’s path of self-discovery, empowerment, and resilience. By breaking free from societal norms, embracing individuality, and navigating challenges, women can unlock their full potential and inspire others along the way.
I am pleased to share how Gayle Certeza‘s A Woman Unboxed relates to my personal thoughts – in general. There were similar scenarios that took me back to childhood, to the past, {and present}, and made me reflect “How did I do?” “What do I still want to pursue?”
When we think of “unboxing,” our minds often turn to the excitement of opening a package and discovering something new. But what if we apply this concept to our own lives?
Just like a package holds surprises inside, each woman carries within her a unique set of dreams, desires, and talents. Up to this day, I am still surprised by how I embraced the changes from singlehood to motherhood and took advantage of recognizing who I really am, and what I am still capable of. To truly unbox ourselves, we must first recognize these expectations and question their validity. Why should we comply with established roles and standards? By challenging expectations, we can begin to carve our own paths and live authentically.
It means embracing our quirks, passions, and individuality without fear of judgment. When we unbox ourselves, we break free from the pressure to fit into a mold and instead celebrate our uniqueness. By embracing our authentic selves, we empower others to do the same and contribute to a world that values diversity.
Unboxing ourselves, especially as a woman, is a journey of self-discovery. It involves exploring our passions, interests, and talents, and not just being confined to what a woman can do if we are to go back to how women were. By trying new things and stepping outside our comfort zones, we can uncover hidden talents and discover what truly brings us joy. This process of self-discovery empowers us to pursue our passions and embrace the things that make us feel alive.
It’s about acknowledging and embracing our imperfections while recognizing our inherent worth. When we unbox ourselves, we tap into our inner strength and cultivate a sense of self-love and confidence. By accepting ourselves fully, flaws and all, we become unstoppable forces capable of achieving greatness.
Imagine receiving a package in the mail, eagerly tearing off the tape and lifting the lid, not knowing what treasures lay inside. The act of unboxing is like embarking on a personal journey of self-discovery, as women peel away the layers to unveil their true potential. Whether it’s career aspirations, personal development, or simply prioritizing self-care, clearly defined goals provide a roadmap toward progress.
How about you? Where are you now in terms of unboxing yourself? I still have a lot. I am still in the process of embracing vulnerability. Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but in reality, it is a powerful tool that allows us to connect with our authentic selves and others. By embracing vulnerability, women can be unafraid to be their true selves and pursue their passions.
I, myself, am still living a life full of setbacks, but it is how I respond to them that shapes my journey. After reading this book, I am more inspired. I am more than ready to inspire others and share unboxed stories that I have kept for a while. By sharing our stories, we break the silence surrounding personal growth and inspire others to embrace their own unboxing journeys, knowing they are not alone. By doing that, we can inspire and uplift others, creating a sense of belonging and validation.
To know more about Certeza & Sons Publishing:
→ Website
→ FB Page
To know more about A Woman Unboxed:
→ Modern Parenting Article
→ Tatler Asia Article
Hi Mitch,
Thank you so much for your beautiful, insightful, inspiring book review. I superloved what you wrote, “ This process of self-discovery empowers us to pursue our passions and embrace the things that make us feel alive.”
Thank you for what you wrote, I am happy, humbled and honored ❤️
Gayle