Bestfriend Of A Lifetime

“Valuing a relationship is not merely done by seeing each other everyday. What counts is how much in our busy lives we remember each other.”

Today’s lunch made me recall the good and bad times that I had with my friends here for the past 8 years.

Friends come and go. It was just a month ago when I’ve convinced myself that I can’t anyone to keep in touch with me if they choose not to. May it be your friend. Or best friend. Or anyone. But sometimes, it just feels so bad when they just keep that relationship aside – for no reason. It hurts. You will somehow forget that feeling as you meet new people everyday, but still… the pain remains.

Though I’ve lost many of them in the past, I am blessed to have my bestfriend of a lifetime. We’ve been the best of friends since High School and managed to keep our friendship miles away. She’s in the US and I’m here. Yet, we never fail to say hi and bye whenever time allows us. We remember each other. In fact, she’s enjoying her holiday back home at the moment. She has visited my family two days ago and brought them pasalubong. I really wish that one day our paths will cross again – with our kids.


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  1. i feel for u sis! ur both lucky to have found each other. yan ang isa sa pinakamahirap makita sa mundong ito. glad u found urs. =)

    Yeah, I’m one of the lucky ones! 🙂


  2. Hi Mitch!! BFF’s do not have to be constantly in touch. What matters is that you are in each other’s hearts and thoughts. Sometimes it even feels that your BFF is more your soulmate that your actual mate. Ganun talaga kung pinagtatagpo ang mga kindred souls 🙂

    Korke ka dyan, but there are people kasi na yun ang basis… too sad.


  3. Nice post about friendship. Not just the bestfriend relationship but even just plain friendship. Even me myself is one that seems that i’ve set aside some relationship. but it does not mean that I forgot them — they are in my thoughts – if not always but most of the time. I always pray they are good and well even i haven’t said hi to them for awhile.

    Kudos to your friendship with your bestfriend. It’s nice. 🙂

    Thanks! 🙂


  4. Mitch,the thoughts of a good friendship will always be complete and undamaged.She might forget your presence but the very thought of you will remain intact. hope to see u again with her someday.

    Well, I hope she feels the same way.


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