By accepting to yourself that you’re still in loved with the person who broke your heart.

Sometimes we force ourselves to forget and fall in love with the next person we don’t really love – just to get even. At the end of the day you’ll still find yourself a loser because of the fact that you’re still in loved with the person who broke your heart – and that you can’t accept.

I just wished I had come to realization that early – implementing the above way on fixing a broken heart. I could’ve saved a gallon of tears back then.

During those years, I found myself forcing to like or worst “love” the next person. Just to show that I wasn’t affected by the previous break-up at all. But the truth was – I was completely devastated. Okay, maybe that was a strong word for that. My heart was completely broken. I’d always hoped that the next person would be able to fix it – forever. They actually did – for the first few days, months or years. But after that? The same thing happened again.

I should’ve accepted to myself that I wasn’t completely over the previous relationship. Then maybe…. maybe it would’ve been a easier for me to fix my broken heart.

Mitch Carvalho

A full-time home-based Marketing Manager by day, 24/7 Mom, and a Blogger at any time. Iā€™m 43 and proud. Mom of Derelle & Erchelle, sharing my adventures as I walk through motherhood and having to do most things on my own while my Indian national husband works miles away from home.