Three days ago, I got this text message:
Okay lang kami ng mga anak ko. Tigilan mo ng magtext sa asawa ko, di pa kami hiwalay. Huwag mo na syang guguluhin, okay?
I was like huh? Who are you? I replied such, wondering maybe I really know this person or it was just a wrong message sent to my phone.
But then she replied in a way that really made me upset. I told her instead:
I am not a mistress. And if ever I would have another man in my life, I won’t go for over a 50 year old man. I pity your husband, he doesn’t know what you’re doing…. I think you two should sit down and discuss your problems.
Again, she replied… Through that message I came to know who she was and right there and then I mentioned her married name. After that she stopped sending me messages. I sent a message to her “husband” letting him know what she’s been doing to me. I don’t care whatever situation they are in right now. But it’s humiliating to say such words to me!
Believe me I thought about this over again.. whether to blog about this or not. At first I said forget it, she doesn’t know what she’s doing besides I won’t stoop down her level. But then, it gave me a thought that somehow it would help wives who are doubting their husbands clear their minds first and think over again before doing such act. It’s embarrassing you know…. You have no right to say that especially when you personally don’t know the other person involved. Besides, I am a decent woman, happily married. Manlalake man ako dun na sa may mapapala ako no! Hmp!
That incident made me think “why do men still look for someone else when they are already married?” Could it be the wives triggering (can’t seem to find the right word for this) them to do it or are they really polygamous by nature, as how most people would say it...?