When you were younger, did you set an ideal age to marry? Yes, I did. I set myself to marry at the age of 24 and get pregnant right away, so by the age of 25, I would have our first bundle of joy. I wish it was that easy! But obviously it wasn’t and it didn’t push through haha!
I met my husband when I was 23 and we got married 5 years later. It was his 3rd proposal though. Maybe I was just not ready and had too many things that occupied my mind. So yeah, I got married at the age of 28 which was 4 years later than my target age and had our first born 2 years later. I would sometimes joke with my parents, that If I knew he’s the same guy I’m going to end up with after our 3 months break-up, I would have gotten pregnant earlier, even out of marriage. Deye would’ve been in the mid of grade school if that happened. And maybe I won’t have a hard time conceiving and delivering especially with my 2nd born. I had to remove dark circles under eyes for not getting proper sleep and see a Dermatologist for PUPPP treatment. Oh well, that doesn’t matter now. I still got married anyway hahaha!