The working mom guilt

Honestly, it took me a while to decide whether I’d go back to the corporate world or not after I gave birth to my bunso, Erchee. But I guess, just like other working mommies, working not from home is already in my system. I tried working from home for over a year but then again, I found myself going back to what I am used to, that is working in the office.

The day I made a big decision of leaving my job abroad for the sake of my eldest, Deye, I thought it would last and be in my mom’s shoes – a plain housewife. Sure thing, working in the office helps me a lot of maintaining my rapport with other people (and not just with the machines and appliances we got in the house), but the guilt inside me never goes  each time I leave and endorse my daughters to their nanny. At the end of each day, I just tell and convince myself that this is for our own good. To keep the guilt off myself, I make sure that when I get home, I take over the kids so that my househelp can relax a bit and do some of the household chores that she needs to finish. I also promised myself not to skip any of the PTA meetings and events in school where my daughter Deye goes. This way, I could make up with them.

Marketing Manager at Adventures Beyond Group | WAHM | Ex-OFW | Music Enthusiast | Cactus and Succulent Hobbyist | Hello Kitty Lover | A 42 y/o mom of two lovely girls sharing her adventures as she walks through motherhood and having to do most things on her own while her Indian national husband works miles away from home.

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