What mother roles do you share with your partner? Since we are miles away, most of the errands that I do, he does them when he’s here on vacation. He cooks, he goes to the market, he takes Deye to school, he puts the kids to sleep and many more. In short, he takes over at everything if possible. But when we were still together abroad, we share equal roles. If he cooks, I wash the dishes. If he washes the dirty clothes, I dry and hang them. I sweep, he mops. I dust the furniture, he scrubs the floors. And I guess it should be done that way.